I wouldn’t change my life for anything but if there was one thing as a woman I wish I knew when I was younger it would be that “I deserved to be treated like a queen”…..I want to speak to all of the ladies, younger or older, who are in relationships, or trying to find the right guy or maybe are just in their teens hoping and dreaming about their Prince Charming….I WENT THROUGH SOME BAD TIMES TO MAKE ME WHO I AM AND TO FINALLY ATTRACT MY PRINCE. SOME WORDS OF ADVICE FROM MY HEART TO YOURS…

A List of things a Queen deserves:

He tells and shows you he loves you unconditionally

He puts you first always

He respects you and your opinions

He lets you be you

He encourages, supports you and lifts you up

He spoils and surprises you

He kisses you goodnight and tells you that you are beautiful

He helps you reach your goals

He treats you as his equal

He laughs with you not at you

He brings you back to reality when you go a little crazy

He acts unselfishly towards you

A List of things a Queen does not deserve:

He tries to control you in any way shape or form

He tells you who you can hang out with and who you can’t

He isolates you in any way from friends and or family

He makes you feel guilty

He tells you that you are not good enough

He puts you down in any way

He yells/screams at you

He puts his hands on you in a violent way

He tells you that saying “I love you” isn’t for everyday use

He puts himself, his hobbies, his wants before yours as a couple

He tells you that “everyone flirts with their co-workers”

He tells you that you are jealous/crazy

He questions what you are doing and where you are going

He texts or calls repeatedly over and over again to track you down

He treats you like you are beneath him

I know you might be thinking who would let someone treat them like that but the reality is it happens everyday to women everywhere and until we stand up for ourselves and the strong, beautiful women that we are…. it will not change. Demand nothing less than love and respect and you will get it. You are stronger than you think!

YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER AND HE IS OUT THERE-I PROMISE YOU THAT. IF YOU ARE NOT BEING TREATED WITH THE HIGHEST AMOUNT OF LOVE AND RESPECT THEN YOU ARE NOT LIVING UP TO THE QUEEN THAT YOU ARE. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE TREATED RIGHT. DO NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS.

XO-A