I wouldn’t change my life for anything but if there was one thing as a woman I wish I knew when I was younger it would be that “I deserved to be treated like a queen”…..I want to speak to all of the ladies, younger or older, who are in relationships, or trying to find the right guy or maybe are just in their teens hoping and dreaming about their Prince Charming….I WENT THROUGH SOME BAD TIMES TO MAKE ME WHO I AM AND TO FINALLY ATTRACT MY PRINCE. SOME WORDS OF ADVICE FROM MY HEART TO YOURS…
A List of things a Queen deserves:
He tells and shows you he loves you unconditionally
He puts you first always
He respects you and your opinions
He lets you be you
He encourages, supports you and lifts you up
He spoils and surprises you
He kisses you goodnight and tells you that you are beautiful
He helps you reach your goals
He treats you as his equal
He laughs with you not at you
He brings you back to reality when you go a little crazy
He acts unselfishly towards you
A List of things a Queen does not deserve:
He tries to control you in any way shape or form
He tells you who you can hang out with and who you can’t
He isolates you in any way from friends and or family
He makes you feel guilty
He tells you that you are not good enough
He puts you down in any way
He yells/screams at you
He puts his hands on you in a violent way
He tells you that saying “I love you” isn’t for everyday use
He puts himself, his hobbies, his wants before yours as a couple
He tells you that “everyone flirts with their co-workers”
He tells you that you are jealous/crazy
He questions what you are doing and where you are going
He texts or calls repeatedly over and over again to track you down
He treats you like you are beneath him
I know you might be thinking who would let someone treat them like that but the reality is it happens everyday to women everywhere and until we stand up for ourselves and the strong, beautiful women that we are…. it will not change. Demand nothing less than love and respect and you will get it. You are stronger than you think!
YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER AND HE IS OUT THERE-I PROMISE YOU THAT. IF YOU ARE NOT BEING TREATED WITH THE HIGHEST AMOUNT OF LOVE AND RESPECT THEN YOU ARE NOT LIVING UP TO THE QUEEN THAT YOU ARE. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE TREATED RIGHT. DO NOT SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS.
XO-A
